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Im an eighteen year old male from England, ive been depressed for about 4 years now, although every year i seem to be coping better than the last. I managed to finish school in 2000 , though only up to gcse. I passed every subject but i didnt do A levels because of Depression and other stuff. I lost contact with friends and was pretty much isoltated for two years.I also gave up Tennis (which i played to national level) which i sort of regret now as some of my former peers are now proffesionals. Recently im starting to feel better , but its now more than ever that i worry about whats going to happen to me in the future, i only completed school to Gcse level and if you want a half decent job in england you need A levels. I cant get a good job and i havent got the motivation to do A levels. A year ago i wouldnt even care about these things as i was so empty . I dont know why i worry about these things now as i still feel like i want to die but im more worried now about the future. is this positive? I also miss hanging around with people my own age but its hard for me to make new friends . my lifes a mess.
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hey whats i’m 19/female/massachusetts usa i also isolated my self from people now basicly all of my social contact is thru the net i think it is positvie you’re worried about the future at least your thinking about it and if you’re worried about what will become of you then you don’t totally want to die it seems as though you want to make something of yourself not just throw your life away as for making friends your own age i’m having a big problem with that too i have a hard time talking to people in person i guess we just have to keep trying i think giving up is the biggest failure
– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Im an eighteen year old male from England, ive been depressed for about 4 years now, although every year i seem to be coping better than the last. I managed to finish school in 2000 , though only up to gcse. I passed every subject but i didnt do A levels because of Depression and other stuff. I lost contact with friends and was pretty much isoltated for two years.I also gave up Tennis (which i played to national level) which i sort of regret now as some of my former peers are now proffesionals. Recently im starting to feel better , but its now more than ever that i worry about whats going to happen to me in the future, i only completed school to Gcse level and if you want a half decent job in england you need A levels. I cant get a good job and i havent got the motivation to do A levels. A year ago i wouldnt even care about these things as i was so empty . I dont know why i worry about these things now as i still feel like i want to die but im more worried now about the future. is this positive? I also miss hanging around with people my own age but its hard for me to make new friends . my lifes a mess.
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Im an eighteen year old male from England, ive been depressed for about 4 years now, although every year i seem to be coping better than the last. I managed to finish school in 2000 , though only up to gcse. I passed every subject but i didnt do A levels because of Depression and other stuff.
You can always go back and do A-Levels. I flunked my A-Levels because of depression, and I’m redoing them this year. Exams aren’t the be all end all of life, and they’re not the end of the world either. I lost contact with friends and was pretty much isoltated for two years.I also gave up Tennis (which i played to national level) which i sort of regret now as some of my former peers are now proffesionals. Recently im starting to feel better , but its now more than ever that i worry about whats going to happen to me in the future, i only completed school to Gcse level and if you want a half decent job in england you need A levels. I cant get a good job and i havent got the motivation to do A levels.
Modern apprenticeship. A year ago i wouldnt even care about these things as i was so empty . I dont know why i worry about these things now as i still feel like i want to die but im more worried now about the future. is this positive?
Yes. It’s a sign of recovery. But recovery isn’t easy, I know. Stick with it. It’s an easy thing to do, like I want to do sometimes, to just go on the strongest kind of tranquilisers and live your life behind a smokescreen of drugs. It’s hard work beating depression, and to get this far that you are worried about the future, you have done really well. I also miss hanging around with people my own age but its hard for me to make new friends . my lifes a mess.
To be honest, it sounds like your life is just a rut in a long road. And you’re getting through it. There will be lots of ruts, and this road is steep, but a few hundred miles down the road, there is a clear, straight plateau. If you look farther, you may even be able to see the downward slope, which you can just cruise down. You have to climb the mountain before you can come down the other side. From what you’ve said, your life is not a mess. You have done a great job fighting depression, but the fight is not over. Keep fighting it, and you will be rewarded. Get a modern apprenticeship, get a small office job and work your way up, or even do A-Levels at college. Find your niche in life and open it up into a great cavern. You can do it if you believe in yourself. Keep the faith dude. — Andy Kimbrey ICQ:78749520 — Everybody needs somebody to love Everybody needs somebody to hate Everybody’s bitching ’cause they can’t get enough Well it’s hard to hold on when there’s no-one to lean on You know you’re gonna live through the rain Lord we gotta keep the faith Don’t you leave your love turn to hate Now we gotta keep the faith
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WELL, STAR18M1 IF YOUR LIFES SUCH A MESS WHY DON’T YOU JUST END IT??? IF THAT’S NOT A VIABLE OPTION FOR YOU THAN I GUESS IT’S NOT THAT BAD AFTER ALL HMMM?? WHILE YOUR AT YOUR HOME, WHICH IS MOST LIKELY FULLY HEATED AND AIR-CONDITIONED, AND REALING IN THE THROUGH OF DEPRESSION THINK ABOUT SOME OF THE PEOPLE WHO HAVE NO FOOD, SHELTER, ENTERTAINMENT, LOVED ONES, ETC…. – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Im an eighteen year old male from England, ive been depressed for about 4 years now, although every year i seem to be coping better than the last. I managed to finish school in 2000 , though only up to gcse. I passed every subject but i didnt do A levels because of Depression and other stuff. I lost contact with friends and was pretty much isoltated for two years.I also gave up Tennis (which i played to national level) which i sort of regret now as some of my former peers are now proffesionals. Recently im starting to feel better , but its now more than ever that i worry about whats going to happen to me in the future, i only completed school to Gcse level and if you want a half decent job in england you need A levels. I cant get a good job and i havent got the motivation to do A levels. A year ago i wouldnt even care about these things as i was so empty . I dont know why i worry about these things now as i still feel like i want to die but im more worried now about the future. is this positive? I also miss hanging around with people my own age but its hard for me to make new friends . my lifes a mess.
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*sigh* go away. Depression isn’t about material goods.
WELL, STAR18M1 IF YOUR LIFES SUCH A MESS WHY DON’T YOU JUST END IT??? IF THAT’S NOT A VIABLE OPTION FOR YOU THAN I GUESS IT’S NOT THAT BAD AFTER ALL HMMM?? WHILE YOUR AT YOUR HOME, WHICH IS MOST LIKELY FULLY HEATED AND
AIR-CONDITIONED, AND – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – REALING IN THE THROUGH OF DEPRESSION THINK ABOUT SOME OF THE PEOPLE WHO HAVE NO FOOD, SHELTER, ENTERTAINMENT, LOVED ONES, ETC…. QUIT WHINING ABOUT WHAT YOU DON’T HAVE AND BE THANKFUL FOR WHAT YOU Im an eighteen year old male from England, ive been depressed for about 4 years now, although every year i seem to be coping better than the last. I managed to finish school in 2000 , though only up to gcse. I passed every subject but i didnt do A levels because of Depression and other stuff. I lost contact with friends and was pretty much isoltated for two years.I also gave up Tennis (which i played to national level) which i sort of regret now as some of my former peers are now proffesionals. Recently im starting to feel better , but its now more than ever that i worry about whats going to happen to me in the future, i only completed school to Gcse level and if you want a half decent job in england you need A levels. I cant get a good job and i havent got the motivation to do A levels. A year ago i wouldnt even care about these things as i was so empty . I dont know why i worry about these things now as i still feel like i want to die but im more worried now about the future. is this positive? I also miss hanging around with people my own age but its hard for me to make new friends . my lifes a mess.
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WELL, STAR18M1 IF YOUR LIFES SUCH A MESS WHY DON’T YOU JUST END IT??? IF THAT’S NOT A VIABLE OPTION FOR YOU THAN I GUESS IT’S NOT THAT BAD AFTER ALL HMMM??
Why are you here if your not depressed
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WELL, STAR18M1
::cut bullshit:: Go away. This is a support NG not a NG where idiots who can’t use their brain post. Bye, Luca
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depression isnt "oh i dont have this, i want this and that." wait..i dont have to explain this to you. just get out of here. you are not welcome among us. and HOW DARE YOU tell anyone to commit suicide. you are just as bad as the one who commits murder by hand. thats pathetic. i pity you and i hope you find some love and serenity in this world to understand, accept, learn and help all people in this world, not just those you think are ‘worth it’.
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Oh… A troll… *ignores the fool* – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – WELL, STAR18M1 IF YOUR LIFES SUCH A MESS WHY DON’T YOU JUST END IT??? IF THAT’S NOT A VIABLE OPTION FOR YOU THAN I GUESS IT’S NOT THAT BAD AFTER ALL HMMM?? WHILE YOUR AT YOUR HOME, WHICH IS MOST LIKELY FULLY HEATED AND AIR-CONDITIONED, AND REALING IN THE THROUGH OF DEPRESSION THINK ABOUT SOME OF THE PEOPLE WHO HAVE NO FOOD, SHELTER, ENTERTAINMENT, LOVED ONES, ETC…. Im an eighteen year old male from England, ive been depressed for about 4 years now, although every year i seem to be coping better than the last. I managed to finish school in 2000 , though only up to gcse. I passed every subject but i didnt do A levels because of Depression and other stuff. I lost contact with friends and was pretty much isoltated for two years.I also gave up Tennis (which i played to national level) which i sort of regret now as some of my former peers are now proffesionals. Recently im starting to feel better , but its now more than ever that i worry about whats going to happen to me in the future, i only completed school to Gcse level and if you want a half decent job in england you need A levels. I cant get a good job and i havent got the motivation to do A levels. A year ago i wouldnt even care about these things as i was so empty . I dont know why i worry about these things now as i still feel like i want to die but im more worried now about the future. is this positive? I also miss hanging around with people my own age but its hard for me to make new friends . my lifes a mess.
– Andy Kimbrey ICQ:78749520 — Everybody needs somebody to love Everybody needs somebody to hate Everybody’s bitching ’cause they can’t get enough Well it’s hard to hold on when there’s no-one to lean on You know you’re gonna live through the rain Lord we gotta keep the faith Don’t you leave your love turn to hate Now we gotta keep the faith
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Andy, truly ignoring is not replying to him, right? Or ‘tease’ him a bit with the help of ur friends you mentioned in ur post ‘Jack’? This guy got all the attention he sollicited, let’s put him on killfile now, ok? — Your humble servant, Dominique "Artificial intelligence is no match for natural stupidity." It has always happened that tyrants, in order to strengthen their power, have made every effort to train their people not only in obedience and servility toward themselves, but also in adoration. –
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