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Thankyouthankyouthankyou…I’m feeling much better hehehehehehehe. Seriously, thanks for the support. Boy do I need it right now. Scott – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Scott… We are here for you… {{{{{big fat hug}}}}}} Hang in there…Cheryl xo — Clowns to the left of me Jokers to the right Here I am Stuck in the middle with you. TC3 My wife kicked me out of the house because she’s not really sure if she wants to live with me and I don’t know why which is obviously a sign that we haven’t been communicating very well and I have been staying with a friend and I have been managing to show up at work but have done practically nothing all week since i’ve been quite depressed and distracted and i don’t know how long i can keep this up without being fired and i feel detached from my own body like i’m not really here at all. I used the word "I" (or variation thereof) eight times in the last (admittedly run-on and jumbly) sentence. I am very concerned with myself right now so I feel a bit guilty about that (i think that’s my point). I have been lurking at ASAP lately because I don’t know what to say to anyone and I feel like a burden on the world because I’m sad and everyone else here obviously has there own problems. On a positive note, I haven’t really been anxious…but maybe that’s just because I feel numb. I hope everyone is having a great day. We should cherish life. Every second that passes is a gift that we should be thankful for. Yada yada yada. Scott — The only difference between myself and a madman is that I AM NOT MAD! -Salvador Dali
– The only difference between myself and a madman is that I AM NOT MAD! -Salvador Dali
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Hang in there Scott! Don’t worry about lurking, we all do it from time to time. Come back often and try to get to work. For me sometimes work is the only thing that has kept me going. David
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Scott… We are here for you… {{{{{big fat hug}}}}}} Hang in there…Cheryl xo — Clowns to the left of me Jokers to the right Here I am Stuck in the middle with you. TC3
– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – My wife kicked me out of the house because she’s not really sure if she wants to live with me and I don’t know why which is obviously a sign that we haven’t been communicating very well and I have been staying with a friend and I have been managing to show up at work but have done practically nothing all week since i’ve been quite depressed and distracted and i don’t know how long i can keep this up without being fired and i feel detached from my own body like i’m not really here at all. I used the word "I" (or variation thereof) eight times in the last (admittedly run-on and jumbly) sentence. I am very concerned with myself right now so I feel a bit guilty about that (i think that’s my point). I have been lurking at ASAP lately because I don’t know what to say to anyone and I feel like a burden on the world because I’m sad and everyone else here obviously has there own problems. On a positive note, I haven’t really been anxious…but maybe that’s just because I feel numb. I hope everyone is having a great day. We should cherish life. Every second that passes is a gift that we should be thankful for. Yada yada yada. Scott — The only difference between myself and a madman is that I AM NOT MAD! -Salvador Dali
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Hi Scot, Sending you some comforting fibes… As is a saying, don’t focus on the problems to much but rather on the solutions. I hope you find your way were the smiles are! (((((Scot))))) Jeannette
– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – My wife kicked me out of the house because she’s not really sure if she wants to live with me and I don’t know why which is obviously a sign that we haven’t been communicating very well and I have been staying with a friend and I have been managing to show up at work but have done practically nothing all week since i’ve been quite depressed and distracted and i don’t know how long i can keep this up without being fired and i feel detached from my own body like i’m not really here at all. I used the word "I" (or variation thereof) eight times in the last (admittedly run-on and jumbly) sentence. I am very concerned with myself right now so I feel a bit guilty about that (i think that’s my point). I have been lurking at ASAP lately because I don’t know what to say to anyone and I feel like a burden on the world because I’m sad and everyone else here obviously has there own problems. On a positive note, I haven’t really been anxious…but maybe that’s just because I feel numb. I hope everyone is having a great day. We should cherish life. Every second that passes is a gift that we should be thankful for. Yada yada yada. Scott — The only difference between myself and a madman is that I AM NOT MAD! -Salvador Dali
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Mike, I read every word of your post and there were many good suggestions. Normally, I would respond to such a lengthy post point by point and answer all your questions. However, my brain’s a little mushy right now, so forgive me. I will give you a little background about me, though. I’m seeing a psychiatrist and a CBT therapist regularly (appointments with both next week–good timing!). I am taking Luvox and Klonopin for anxiety, but I’m not on antidepressants because unless I have high anxiety levels for long periods of time I usually don’t have problems with depression. Also, I haven’t talked to my supervisors about my anxiety problem. I’ve struggled with this one for a while and I would like to do it. I guess I’m afraid of some type of retribution or questioning of my work or something. In reality, I suppose I’m just scaring myself (which is the ironic basis of most anxiety issues, I think). Anyway, thanks for your concern and your seeking me out on AOL last night (sorry about the timing). I’ll try to watch out for those nasty negative thought patterns. Scott – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Hi, Scott….. Sounds like you have an awful lot on your plate right now. :(( I don’t know what kind of work you do or what your relationship is to your boss….. but could you explain that you are going through a really rough period right now?? Sometimes just letting those *in charge* know is an eye-opening experience in itself. I have been a teacher/school counselor/librarian for 28 years. I have worked for four six different principals. I used to hide my PD….. did it for years! Finally, I was having quite a bit of trouble one year and I talked to my principal. He listened to me…. and replied that he had a son who had also shown some symptoms of anxiety…. and that he knew how difficult it could be….. and to let him know any way that he could help me. I was bowled over……! Never expected that response….. Since that time, I have talked with three other principals when I was having a rough time, and all have been *super supportive*…. Whatever work you do, I’m sure you are an asset to your company/business….. and your boss must recognize that…. and won’t want to lose you…. and may be oh-so- much-more understanding than you think….. Just food for thought! Sometimes just letting a superior *know* about your problem makes it easier ….. it did for me, at least….. I don’t know what kind of meds/therapy you are doing, so forgive my ignorance….. but if you are not on anti-depressants, perhaps you could talk to your doc about that… I read a lot of depression in your post. Self-put-down is a key sign….. need to get rid of that *stinkin’ thinkin’*. If you *are* taking an AD, perhaps you need to adjust the dosage….. Or more frequent visits with your therapist? Again, just food for thought…. Has your wife been supportive of your struggle with this disorder? Does she *try* to understand? It’s so hard for those who have never experienced a PA to know what it is like….. in fact, they *never* *really* know…. And the disorder can be just as hard on family members as it is on the sufferer….. Did your wife ever go to therapy visits with you? Did you and she discuss the possibility of couple counseling at all…..? As someone else said, perhaps it’s best to just give her a little space right now…. and remember that these *speedbumps* happen in every marriage….. and usually make the marriage stronger in the long run. It’s good that you have a friend to stay with. At least you are not alone right now….. though I’m sure you must feel very *lonely*….. 
Please know that I’m thinking of you…. and wishing you well…… and that I’m available for chat anytime you would like ….. I don’t pretend to have all the answers, but just sharing with someone else who *does* understand can make a huge difference. And please keep posting to ASAP…… and let us know how you are doing….. That’s why we are all here! Right now you are feeling down….. and are having a hard time….. let us be there for you. One day it may be me that is down in the dark pit ….. and I hope someone will be there to hold up a light for me….. There’s no shame in sharing your troubles….. actually, I find it quite humbling when someone feels comfortable enough to share his/her feelings/struggles with me….. Take care…. and keep in touch! MikeH 
My wife kicked me out of the house because she’s not really sure if she wants to live with me and I don’t know why which is obviously a sign that we haven’t been communicating very well and I have been staying with a friend and I have been managing to show up at work but have done practically nothing all week since i’ve been quite depressed and distracted and i don’t know how long i can keep this up without being fired and i feel detached from my own body like i’m not really here at all. I used the word "I" (or variation thereof) eight times in the last (admittedly run-on and jumbly) sentence. I am very concerned with myself right now so I feel a bit guilty about that (i think that’s my point). I have been lurking at ASAP lately because I don’t know what to say to anyone and I feel like a burden on the world because I’m sad and everyone else here obviously has there own problems. On a positive note, I haven’t really been anxious…but maybe that’s just because I feel numb. I hope everyone is having a great day. We should cherish life. Every second that passes is a gift that we should be thankful for. Yada yada yada.
– The only difference between myself and a madman is that I AM NOT MAD! -Salvador Dali
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Thank you very much. Hugs and vibes appreciated. I will keep working on this one for sure. It’s going to be a bumpy ride. Scott – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Hi Scot, Sending you some comforting fibes… As is a saying, don’t focus on the problems to much but rather on the solutions. I hope you find your way were the smiles are! (((((Scot))))) Jeannette My wife kicked me out of the house because she’s not really sure if she wants to live with me and I don’t know why which is obviously a sign that we haven’t been communicating very well and I have been staying with a friend and I have been managing to show up at work but have done practically nothing all week since i’ve been quite depressed and distracted and i don’t know how long i can keep this up without being fired and i feel detached from my own body like i’m not really here at all. I used the word "I" (or variation thereof) eight times in the last (admittedly run-on and jumbly) sentence. I am very concerned with myself right now so I feel a bit guilty about that (i think that’s my point). I have been lurking at ASAP lately because I don’t know what to say to anyone and I feel like a burden on the world because I’m sad and everyone else here obviously has there own problems. On a positive note, I haven’t really been anxious…but maybe that’s just because I feel numb. I hope everyone is having a great day. We should cherish life. Every second that passes is a gift that we should be thankful for. Yada yada yada. Scott — The only difference between myself and a madman is that I AM NOT MAD! -Salvador Dali
– The only difference between myself and a madman is that I AM NOT MAD! -Salvador Dali
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Miss Anna, You are the best. What else can I say? Scott Path: news.wxs.nl!news-x2.support.nl!feed2.onemain.com!feed1.onemain.com!
xfer13.netnews.com!netnews.com!cpk-news-hub1.bbnplanet.com! news.gtei.net!news.maxwell.syr.edu!nntp2.deja.com!nnrp1.deja.com!not- for-mail – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – X-Http-User-Agent: Mozilla/4.0 (compatible; MSIE 5.01; Windows NT) X-Http-Proxy: 1.0 x64.deja.com:80 (Squid/1.1.22) for client 206.19.233.2 X-MyDeja-Info: XMYDJUIDwallywam Xref: news.wxs.nl alt.support.anxiety-panic:263300 My wife kicked me out of the house because she’s not really sure if she wants to live with me and I don’t know why which is obviously a sign that we haven’t been communicating very well and I have been staying with a friend and I have been managing to show up at work but have done practically nothing all week since i’ve been quite depressed and distracted and i don’t know how long i can keep this up without being fired and i feel detached from my own body like i’m not really here at all. I used the word "I" (or variation thereof) eight times in the last (admittedly run-on and jumbly) sentence. I am very concerned with myself right now so I feel a bit guilty about that (i think that’s my point). Dear friend, You can use *I* a thousand times as far as I am concerned There are big problems in your life and you should not compare them to others and their problems. The burden you have to weight yourself is allways a big burden You cannot allways be the *happy* guy around here. So often you made me smile in difficult situations,now please lean on us a bit,that is why we are here. I know guiltfeelings are a point for the most of us,but try not to feel quilty I have been lurking at ASAP lately because I don’t know what to say to anyone and I feel like a burden on the world because I’m sad and everyone else here obviously has there own problems. On a positive note, I haven’t really been anxious…but maybe that’s just because I feel numb. I hope everyone is having a great day. We should cherish life. Every second that passes is a gift that we should be thankful for. Yada yada yada. Scott That is the great thing about this supportgroup,if you dunnot support you can ask for support. There is enough of that here so ask if you need it. Maybe it is for the good your wife and you having some distance. I cannot say that,but sometimes it works. You know my email So if you wanna vent Go ahead You can even write in really really bad dutch 
Love ya and big big big Hug from Anna — The only difference between myself and a madman is that I AM NOT MAD! -Salvador Dali
– The only difference between myself and a madman is that I AM NOT MAD! -Salvador Dali
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Thank you, thank you, thank you. :) Scott – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Scott, I am sorry you are having so many troubles right now. Give your wife some time and distance – it is usually best for both of you. It is difficult somedays to get through – you look back on the day and wonder how you managed but we are stronger than we realize. You are far from a burden – we are all here for each other… smiles, elise My wife kicked me out of the house because she’s not really sure if she wants to live with me and I don’t know why which is obviously a sign that we haven’t been communicating very well and I have been staying with a friend and I have been managing to show up at work but have done practically nothing all week since i’ve been quite depressed and distracted and i don’t know how long i can keep this up without being fired and i feel detached from my own body like i’m not really here at all. I used the word "I" (or variation thereof) eight times in the last (admittedly run-on and jumbly) sentence. I am very concerned with myself right now so I feel a bit guilty about that (i think that’s my point). I have been lurking at ASAP lately because I don’t know what to say to anyone and I feel like a burden on the world because I’m sad and everyone else here obviously has there own problems. On a positive note, I haven’t really been anxious…but maybe that’s just because I feel numb. I hope everyone is having a great day. We should cherish life. Every second that passes is a gift that we should be thankful for. Yada yada yada. Scott — The only difference between myself and a madman is that I AM NOT MAD! -Salvador Dali
– The only difference between myself and a madman is that I AM NOT MAD! -Salvador Dali
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Is marriage counseling still an option?
Yes. I will do anything to help things work out. Right now I think she needs some space so I will give her that. Thanks so much. You are a very kind person. Scott — The only difference between myself and a madman is that I AM NOT MAD! -Salvador Dali
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Thank you. Prayers appreciated. Will also accept positive vibes, kind thoughts, etc. Scott – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Dear Scott…it is OK to post here about your problems. Yes, we all have problems but that is what is neat about this group. We can come here and share them and know that someone hears us. I am so sorry you are going through this hard time. I will pray for peace for you. {{{{Scott}}}} My wife kicked me out of the house because she’s not really sure if she wants to live with me and I don’t know why which is obviously a sign that we haven’t been communicating very well and I have been staying with a friend and I have been managing to show up at work but have done practically nothing all week since i’ve been quite depressed and distracted and i don’t know how long i can keep this up without being fired and i feel detached from my own body like i’m not really here at all. I used the word "I" (or variation thereof) eight times in the last (admittedly run-on and jumbly) sentence. I am very concerned with myself right now so I feel a bit guilty about that (i think that’s my point). I have been lurking at ASAP lately because I don’t know what to say to anyone and I feel like a burden on the world because I’m sad and everyone else here obviously has there own problems. On a positive note, I haven’t really been anxious…but maybe that’s just because I feel numb. I hope everyone is having a great day. We should cherish life. Every second that passes is a gift that we should be thankful for. Yada yada yada. Scott — The only difference between myself and a madman is that I AM NOT MAD! -Salvador Dali Jeannie
– The only difference between myself and a madman is that I AM NOT MAD! -Salvador Dali
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Thanks, Jackie. I don’t feel like a burden so much because I’m sharing my problems but it’s because I can’t give any support to anyone else right now. Anyways, you’re great! Scott – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – My wife kicked me out of the house because she’s not really sure if she wants to live with me and I don’t know why which is obviously a sign that we haven’t been communicating very well and I have been staying with a friend and I have been managing to show up at work but have done practically nothing all week since i’ve been quite depressed and distracted and i don’t know how long i can keep this up without being fired and i feel detached from my own body like i’m not really here at all. I used the word "I" (or variation thereof) eight times in the last (admittedly run-on and jumbly) sentence. I am very concerned with myself right now so I feel a bit guilty about that (i think that’s my point). I have been lurking at ASAP lately because I don’t know what to say to anyone and I feel like a burden on the world because I’m sad and everyone else here obviously has there own problems. On a positive note, I haven’t really been anxious…but maybe that’s just because I feel numb. I hope everyone is having a great day. We should cherish life. Every second that passes is a gift that we should be thankful for. Yada yada yada. Dear Scott, I am really sorry to hear this Scott. You are not a burden at all, everybody has problems, but that doesn`t make yours or anyone elses less painful or stressful. That is what is so good about ASAP, there is enough support and compassion to go around for everybody. I hope that you and your wife can work things out. You will be in my thoughts. Jackie Who knows whither the clouds have fled? In the unscarred heaven they leave no wake; And the eyes forget the tears they have shed, The heart forgets its sorrow and ache.
– The only difference between myself and a madman is that I AM NOT MAD! -Salvador Dali
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– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Path: news.wxs.nl!news-x2.support.nl!feed2.onemain.com!feed1.onemain.com!xfer13.n etnews.com!netnews.com!cpk-news-hub1.bbnplanet.com!news.gtei.net!news.maxwe ll.syr.edu!nntp2.deja.com!nnrp1.deja.com!not-for-mail X-Http-User-Agent: Mozilla/4.0 (compatible; MSIE 5.01; Windows NT) X-Http-Proxy: 1.0 x64.deja.com:80 (Squid/1.1.22) for client 206.19.233.2 X-MyDeja-Info: XMYDJUIDwallywam Xref: news.wxs.nl alt.support.anxiety-panic:263300 My wife kicked me out of the house because she’s not really sure if she wants to live with me and I don’t know why which is obviously a sign that we haven’t been communicating very well and I have been staying with a friend and I have been managing to show up at work but have done practically nothing all week since i’ve been quite depressed and distracted and i don’t know how long i can keep this up without being fired and i feel detached from my own body like i’m not really here at all. I used the word "I" (or variation thereof) eight times in the last (admittedly run-on and jumbly) sentence. I am very concerned with myself right now so I feel a bit guilty about that (i think that’s my point).
Dear friend, You can use *I* a thousand times as far as I am concerned There are big problems in your life and you should not compare them to others and their problems. The burden you have to weight yourself is allways a big burden You cannot allways be the *happy* guy around here. So often you made me smile in difficult situations,now please lean on us a bit,that is why we are here. I know guiltfeelings are a point for the most of us,but try not to feel quilty I have been lurking at ASAP lately because I don’t know what to say to anyone and I feel like a burden on the world because I’m sad and everyone else here obviously has there own problems. On a positive note, I haven’t really been anxious…but maybe that’s just because I feel numb. I hope everyone is having a great day. We should cherish life. Every second that passes is a gift that we should be thankful for. Yada yada yada. Scott
That is the great thing about this supportgroup,if you dunnot support you can ask for support. There is enough of that here so ask if you need it. Maybe it is for the good your wife and you having some distance. I cannot say that,but sometimes it works. You know my email So if you wanna vent Go ahead You can even write in really really bad dutch Love ya and big big big Hug from Anna – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – — The only difference between myself and a madman is that I AM NOT MAD! -Salvador Dali
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Thanks for your concern. I do have some great supportive friends (on here too!). I was just kinda freaking out yesterday. I’m just going to keep hanging in there and ride things out. Scott – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – So sorry you are having relationship challenges with your wife. Yikes! Please don’t feel you are a burden to ASAP. We are a support group and here for one another. Have you got someone to talk to about this? Take care, Liz My wife kicked me out of the house because she’s not really sure if she wants to live with me and I don’t know why which is obviously a sign that we haven’t been communicating very well and I have been staying with a friend and I have been managing to show up at work but have done practically nothing all week since i’ve been quite depressed and distracted and i don’t know how long i can keep this up without being fired and i feel detached from my own body like i’m not really here at all. I used the word "I" (or variation thereof) eight times in the last (admittedly run-on and jumbly) sentence. I am very concerned with myself right now so I feel a bit guilty about that (i think that’s my point). I have been lurking at ASAP lately because I don’t know what to say to anyone and I feel like a burden on the world because I’m sad and everyone else here obviously has there own problems. On a positive note, I haven’t really been anxious…but maybe that’s just because I feel numb. I hope everyone is having a great day. We should cherish life. Every second that passes is a gift that we should be thankful for. Yada yada yada. Scott — The only difference between myself and a madman is that I AM NOT MAD! -Salvador Dali — There is always music amongst the trees in the garden but our minds must be very still to hear it. ASAP Gardening Site: http://www.chickadee.com/asapgardens
– The only difference between myself and a madman is that I AM NOT MAD! -Salvador Dali
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- Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – My wife kicked me out of the house because she’s not really sure if she wants to live with me and I don’t know why which is obviously a sign that we haven’t been communicating very well and I have been staying with a friend and I have been managing to show up at work but have done practically nothing all week since i’ve been quite depressed and distracted and i don’t know how long i can keep this up without being fired and i feel detached from my own body like i’m not really here at all. I used the word "I" (or variation thereof) eight times in the last (admittedly run-on and jumbly) sentence. I am very concerned with myself right now so I feel a bit guilty about that (i think that’s my point). I have been lurking at ASAP lately because I don’t know what to say to anyone and I feel like a burden on the world because I’m sad and everyone else here obviously has there own problems. On a positive note, I haven’t really been anxious…but maybe that’s just because I feel numb. I hope everyone is having a great day. We should cherish life. Every second that passes is a gift that we should be thankful for. Yada yada yada. Scott
Scott, please don’t be so hard on yourself. You are in a very bad spot and I am sorry things are as they are. You’d better be concerned with *you* right now and please know that we will all be here for you to help you through whatever it is you will be going through. Is marriage counseling still an option? Philip – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – — The only difference between myself and a madman is that I AM NOT MAD! -Salvador Dali
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Dear Scott…it is OK to post here about your problems. Yes, we all have problems but that is what is neat about this group. We can come here and share them and know that someone hears us. I am so sorry you are going through this hard time. I will pray for peace for you. {{{{Scott}}}} – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -My wife kicked me out of the house because she’s not really sure if she wants to live with me and I don’t know why which is obviously a sign that we haven’t been communicating very well and I have been staying with a friend and I have been managing to show up at work but have done practically nothing all week since i’ve been quite depressed and distracted and i don’t know how long i can keep this up without being fired and i feel detached from my own body like i’m not really here at all. I used the word "I" (or variation thereof) eight times in the last (admittedly run-on and jumbly) sentence. I am very concerned with myself right now so I feel a bit guilty about that (i think that’s my point). I have been lurking at ASAP lately because I don’t know what to say to anyone and I feel like a burden on the world because I’m sad and everyone else here obviously has there own problems. On a positive note, I haven’t really been anxious…but maybe that’s just because I feel numb. I hope everyone is having a great day. We should cherish life. Every second that passes is a gift that we should be thankful for. Yada yada yada. Scott — The only difference between myself and a madman is that I AM NOT MAD! -Salvador Dali
Jeannie
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Hi, Scott….. Sounds like you have an awful lot on your plate right now. :(( I don’t know what kind of work you do or what your relationship is to your boss….. but could you explain that you are going through a really rough period right now?? Sometimes just letting those *in charge* know is an eye-opening experience in itself. I have been a teacher/school counselor/librarian for 28 years. I have worked for four six different principals. I used to hide my PD….. did it for years! Finally, I was having quite a bit of trouble one year and I talked to my principal. He listened to me…. and replied that he had a son who had also shown some symptoms of anxiety…. and that he knew how difficult it could be….. and to let him know any way that he could help me. I was bowled over……! Never expected that response….. Since that time, I have talked with three other principals when I was having a rough time, and all have been *super supportive*…. Whatever work you do, I’m sure you are an asset to your company/business….. and your boss must recognize that…. and won’t want to lose you…. and may be oh-so-much-more understanding than you think….. Just food for thought! Sometimes just letting a superior *know* about your problem makes it easier ….. it did for me, at least….. I don’t know what kind of meds/therapy you are doing, so forgive my ignorance….. but if you are not on anti-depressants, perhaps you could talk to your doc about that… I read a lot of depression in your post. Self-put-down is a key sign….. need to get rid of that *stinkin’ thinkin’*. If you *are* taking an AD, perhaps you need to adjust the dosage….. Or more frequent visits with your therapist? Again, just food for thought…. Has your wife been supportive of your struggle with this disorder? Does she *try* to understand? It’s so hard for those who have never experienced a PA to know what it is like….. in fact, they *never* *really* know…. And the disorder can be just as hard on family members as it is on the sufferer….. Did your wife ever go to therapy visits with you? Did you and she discuss the possibility of couple counseling at all…..? As someone else said, perhaps it’s best to just give her a little space right now…. and remember that these *speedbumps* happen in every marriage….. and usually make the marriage stronger in the long run. It’s good that you have a friend to stay with. At least you are not alone right now….. though I’m sure you must feel very *lonely*….. Please know that I’m thinking of you…. and wishing you well…… and that I’m available for chat anytime you would like ….. I don’t pretend to have all the answers, but just sharing with someone else who *does* understand can make a huge difference. And please keep posting to ASAP…… and let us know how you are doing….. That’s why we are all here! Right now you are feeling down….. and are having a hard time….. let us be there for you. One day it may be me that is down in the dark pit ….. and I hope someone will be there to hold up a light for me….. There’s no shame in sharing your troubles….. actually, I find it quite humbling when someone feels comfortable enough to share his/her feelings/struggles with me….. Take care…. and keep in touch! MikeH – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – My wife kicked me out of the house because she’s not really sure if she wants to live with me and I don’t know why which is obviously a sign that we haven’t been communicating very well and I have been staying with a friend and I have been managing to show up at work but have done practically nothing all week since i’ve been quite depressed and distracted and i don’t know how long i can keep this up without being fired and i feel detached from my own body like i’m not really here at all. I used the word "I" (or variation thereof) eight times in the last (admittedly run-on and jumbly) sentence. I am very concerned with myself right now so I feel a bit guilty about that (i think that’s my point). I have been lurking at ASAP lately because I don’t know what to say to anyone and I feel like a burden on the world because I’m sad and everyone else here obviously has there own problems. On a positive note, I haven’t really been anxious…but maybe that’s just because I feel numb. I hope everyone is having a great day. We should cherish life. Every second that passes is a gift that we should be thankful for. Yada yada yada.
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Scott, I am sorry you are having so many troubles right now. Give your wife some time and distance – it is usually best for both of you. It is difficult somedays to get through – you look back on the day and wonder how you managed but we are stronger than we realize. You are far from a burden – we are all here for each other… smiles, elise
– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – My wife kicked me out of the house because she’s not really sure if she wants to live with me and I don’t know why which is obviously a sign that we haven’t been communicating very well and I have been staying with a friend and I have been managing to show up at work but have done practically nothing all week since i’ve been quite depressed and distracted and i don’t know how long i can keep this up without being fired and i feel detached from my own body like i’m not really here at all. I used the word "I" (or variation thereof) eight times in the last (admittedly run-on and jumbly) sentence. I am very concerned with myself right now so I feel a bit guilty about that (i think that’s my point). I have been lurking at ASAP lately because I don’t know what to say to anyone and I feel like a burden on the world because I’m sad and everyone else here obviously has there own problems. On a positive note, I haven’t really been anxious…but maybe that’s just because I feel numb. I hope everyone is having a great day. We should cherish life. Every second that passes is a gift that we should be thankful for. Yada yada yada. Scott — The only difference between myself and a madman is that I AM NOT MAD! -Salvador Dali
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- Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – My wife kicked me out of the house because she’s not really sure if she wants to live with me and I don’t know why which is obviously a sign that we haven’t been communicating very well and I have been staying with a friend and I have been managing to show up at work but have done practically nothing all week since i’ve been quite depressed and distracted and i don’t know how long i can keep this up without being fired and i feel detached from my own body like i’m not really here at all. I used the word "I" (or variation thereof) eight times in the last (admittedly run-on and jumbly) sentence. I am very concerned with myself right now so I feel a bit guilty about that (i think that’s my point). I have been lurking at ASAP lately because I don’t know what to say to anyone and I feel like a burden on the world because I’m sad and everyone else here obviously has there own problems. On a positive note, I haven’t really been anxious…but maybe that’s just because I feel numb. I hope everyone is having a great day. We should cherish life. Every second that passes is a gift that we should be thankful for. Yada yada yada.
Dear Scott, I am really sorry to hear this Scott. You are not a burden at all, everybody has problems, but that doesn`t make yours or anyone elses less painful or stressful. That is what is so good about ASAP, there is enough support and compassion to go around for everybody. I hope that you and your wife can work things out. You will be in my thoughts. Jackie Who knows whither the clouds have fled? In the unscarred heaven they leave no wake; And the eyes forget the tears they have shed, The heart forgets its sorrow and ache.
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Thank you, Robin. – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Scott…. I am SOOOO sorry about the troubles you are having with your marriage. Maybe some time away from things will do you both some good. I hope you are taking care of yourself. Just please keep in touch so we know you are ok. Feel free to email me anytime if you need to. R My wife kicked me out of the house because she’s not really sure if she wants to live with me and I don’t know why which is obviously a sign that we haven’t been communicating very well and I have been staying with a friend and I have been managing to show up at work but have done practically nothing all week since i’ve been quite depressed and distracted and i don’t know how long i can keep this up without being fired and i feel detached from my own body like i’m not really here at all. I used the word "I" (or variation thereof) eight times in the last (admittedly run-on and jumbly) sentence. I am very concerned with myself right now so I feel a bit guilty about that (i think that’s my point). I have been lurking at ASAP lately because I don’t know what to say to anyone and I feel like a burden on the world because I’m sad and everyone else here obviously has there own problems. On a positive note, I haven’t really been anxious…but maybe that’s just because I feel numb. I hope everyone is having a great day. We should cherish life. Every second that passes is a gift that we should be thankful for. Yada yada yada. Scott — The only difference between myself and a madman is that I AM NOT MAD! -Salvador Dali Robin Don’t sweat the small stuff…and it’s ALL small stuff!
– The only difference between myself and a madman is that I AM NOT MAD! -Salvador Dali
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So sorry you are having relationship challenges with your wife. Yikes! Please don’t feel you are a burden to ASAP. We are a support group and here for one another. Have you got someone to talk to about this? Take care, Liz – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – My wife kicked me out of the house because she’s not really sure if she wants to live with me and I don’t know why which is obviously a sign that we haven’t been communicating very well and I have been staying with a friend and I have been managing to show up at work but have done practically nothing all week since i’ve been quite depressed and distracted and i don’t know how long i can keep this up without being fired and i feel detached from my own body like i’m not really here at all. I used the word "I" (or variation thereof) eight times in the last (admittedly run-on and jumbly) sentence. I am very concerned with myself right now so I feel a bit guilty about that (i think that’s my point). I have been lurking at ASAP lately because I don’t know what to say to anyone and I feel like a burden on the world because I’m sad and everyone else here obviously has there own problems. On a positive note, I haven’t really been anxious…but maybe that’s just because I feel numb. I hope everyone is having a great day. We should cherish life. Every second that passes is a gift that we should be thankful for. Yada yada yada. Scott — The only difference between myself and a madman is that I AM NOT MAD! -Salvador Dali
– There is always music amongst the trees in the garden but our minds must be very still to hear it. ASAP Gardening Site: http://www.chickadee.com/asapgardens
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Scott…. I am SOOOO sorry about the troubles you are having with your marriage. Maybe some time away from things will do you both some good. I hope you are taking care of yourself. Just please keep in touch so we know you are ok. Feel free to email me anytime if you need to. R – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -My wife kicked me out of the house because she’s not really sure if she wants to live with me and I don’t know why which is obviously a sign that we haven’t been communicating very well and I have been staying with a friend and I have been managing to show up at work but have done practically nothing all week since i’ve been quite depressed and distracted and i don’t know how long i can keep this up without being fired and i feel detached from my own body like i’m not really here at all. I used the word "I" (or variation thereof) eight times in the last (admittedly run-on and jumbly) sentence. I am very concerned with myself right now so I feel a bit guilty about that (i think that’s my point). I have been lurking at ASAP lately because I don’t know what to say to anyone and I feel like a burden on the world because I’m sad and everyone else here obviously has there own problems. On a positive note, I haven’t really been anxious…but maybe that’s just because I feel numb. I hope everyone is having a great day. We should cherish life. Every second that passes is a gift that we should be thankful for. Yada yada yada. Scott — The only difference between myself and a madman is that I AM NOT MAD! -Salvador Dali
Robin Don’t sweat the small stuff…and it’s ALL small stuff!
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My wife kicked me out of the house because she’s not really sure if she wants to live with me and I don’t know why which is obviously a sign that we haven’t been communicating very well and I have been staying with a friend and I have been managing to show up at work but have done practically nothing all week since i’ve been quite depressed and distracted and i don’t know how long i can keep this up without being fired and i feel detached from my own body like i’m not really here at all. I used the word "I" (or variation thereof) eight times in the last (admittedly run-on and jumbly) sentence. I am very concerned with myself right now so I feel a bit guilty about that (i think that’s my point). I have been lurking at ASAP lately because I don’t know what to say to anyone and I feel like a burden on the world because I’m sad and everyone else here obviously has there own problems. On a positive note, I haven’t really been anxious…but maybe that’s just because I feel numb. I hope everyone is having a great day. We should cherish life. Every second that passes is a gift that we should be thankful for. Yada yada yada. Scott — The only difference between myself and a madman is that I AM NOT MAD! -Salvador Dali
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